"How You Get The Girl" Is About How To Show Someone You Care And Get Them Back In Your Life. The Song Talks About How To Stand Up To The Person You Want To Be With And How To Never Give Up Believing That Everything Will Be Alright. The Chorus Speaks To How The Singer Will Wait Forever And Ever If They Need To In Order To Show The Person They Love How Much They Care And To Win Them Back For Better Or For Worse. This Song Is About Staying Committed No Matter How Much Time Passes Or Heartbreak Is Endured And Promises That Things Will Work Out In The End As Long As You Remain Dedicated To Winning The Heart Of The One You Love.